I had a couple who has among various other testing aspects, a Saturn square Venus inter-aspect which is rather tight. On first sight, it's controlling love which resonates with the woman who has the Venus: "He's controlling all right." There was another inter-aspect - Saturn conjunct Mars where the woman has the Mars. Thinking fatalistically, … Continue reading Venus-Saturn – Synastry
Perfect relationships are rare, if they exist at all. If you are in a perfect relationship, I want to hear from you! There will be parts of a relationship that are testing for both of you. How you handle those potential sources of conflicts, misunderstanding, disagreement or tension has a bearing on the "success" of … Continue reading The Perfect Love
Imagine a couple is going through a though patch. There's a low emphasis on air in both person's natal chart. They could have trouble processing their thoughts and articulating them. Thoughts on whether to continue with a relationship, to end it or ? This is a time where an airy person could be of "help" … Continue reading Low Emphasis on Air – Synastry
Note: This post focuses on relationships. Pluto uncovers what is buried. Venus represents love, relationship, aesthetic taste or even art, among many other significators (e.g. female characters, beauty, beauty things). So a Pluto-Venus transit may uncover what has been buried in a relationship, especially any sources of unhappiness that relates to the relationship. Uncovering of … Continue reading Pluto-Venus Transit
How could I have missed this - Chiron = wound, Venus = love, relationship. Chiron conjunct Venus - wounding of some sort relating to love, relationship, aesthetic taste. Ta da. Mr Kawasaki had this transit, without a birth time. I was going on about Venus = young female, values, etc but didn't touch on love?! … Continue reading Chiron Conjunct Venus
Felicity is sobbing. She asks whether she will be together with the man she loves. I realised something about myself. I feel compelled to give hope to clients when there's none. To tell a white lie so that they go off with a lithe in their steps on the way out. Saturn sits directly on … Continue reading Will We Be Together?
Question: Will we be together? Instead of "No", try "I would suggest that you move on to allow a person who is more deserving of your love and able to reciprocate your love to come into your life." Question: Will this be a loving and/or long-term relationship? Instead of "No", try "You will clarify and … Continue reading Delivering Bad News
I had a few women/men who asked me "When will I meet the love of my life?" These men/women inevitably had a few relationships in their life and had left one recently or some time ago. For quite a few of them, when they posed the above question, the Ascendant of the horary chart is … Continue reading When Will I Meet the Love of My Life?
Pluto represents transformation. Sun can represent life direction and the conscious self. When there's a square, opposition or conjunction between Pluto and Sun in a synastry comparison, it seems like Pluto-person is trying to transform the Sun-person in terms of his/her entire being, life direction and life purpose as well. The Sun represents the hero's … Continue reading Pluto-Sun Hard Aspects in Synastry
A woman asked about her future. I painted a picture for her. She then revealed the question of her desire - will there be a divorce? I asked whether she would like that? She maintained her question: what does the future hold for her marriage? I said I don't like to give a definitive answer … Continue reading Will There be a Divorce?