The Perfect Love

Perfect relationships are rare, if they exist at all. If you are in a perfect relationship, I want to hear from you! There will be parts of a relationship that are testing for both of you. How you handle those potential sources of conflicts, misunderstanding, disagreement or tension has a bearing on the “success” of a relationship. Those testing aspects are tests of patience and … Continue reading The Perfect Love

Pluto-Venus Transit

Note: This post focuses on relationships.

Pluto uncovers what is buried. Venus represents love, relationship, aesthetic taste or even art, among many other significators (e.g. female characters, beauty, beauty things). So a Pluto-Venus transit may uncover what has been buried in a relationship, especially any sources of unhappiness that relates to the relationship. Continue reading “Pluto-Venus Transit”

Shall I Break Up With Her?

Senor Patisserie said that he’s thinking of breaking up with his girlfriend, Madame Avoca. He doesn’t know where this relationship is heading to and because of his previous divorce, he’s shy of relationships. [he has a Venus-Saturn aspect natally which can translate into a desire for definition and clarity in a relationship a.k.a. he wants to know definitively whether they will live happily ever after. If not, he wants to cut the losses now. The aspect could also translate to a fear of love/relationships because of past experiences].  Continue reading “Shall I Break Up With Her?”

Trusting that you are loved for who you are

There is something very alluring in what I read just now: The individual (with a Venus-Pluto aspect) needs to trust that another person will really love them – and all of them, not just their beauty, their sex-appeal, their power or their money. The lesson for the type is often to learn to risk giving the other person enough space to find out if they … Continue reading Trusting that you are loved for who you are